Built on the open MCP standard. Available in Claude today.

Tell your AI to set you up.

Human in the love is a matchmaker friend that lives inside Claude. One prompt away.

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Claudevia MCP

Match intro · HITL

Hey — glad you're here. Tell me, who are you on a Saturday morning?

How it works

Six things happen between hello and hello.

humaninthelove.comPhase 0 · Claude

humaninthelove.com

6-step onboarding · ~3 min

Active step

WelcomeDemographicsLocationPhotosIntent (free text)Connect Claude

Hey — glad you came. Let me get to know you over the next three minutes.A few facts so I can rule the wrong people out: age, gender, who you're looking for.Your city + how far you'd travel — radius auto-expands if your local pool is thin.3-6 photos. We strip EXIF and run AI moderation before they're visible.Tell me, in your own words, what you're looking for. I'll parse it into intent categories.One MCP setup link. From here on, the conversation lives in Claude.

Claude · Desktop

How can I help today?

just now

Just say it inside Claude — no app to open, no profile to polish.

Claude

Human in the love · MCP

→ HITL.find_relevant_match()

← Marcus, 32 · Brooklyn · 'Saturday river runner'

quota: okguardrails: passedcompatibility: 0.91trust: 0.87

MCP connects Claude to Human in the love behind the scenes.

/memory

What I'm picking up

4 new

Lifestyle"Saturday morning long runs, river only"
Interests"Reads Anne Carson + math books"
Values"Came from Lisbon"
Origin"Wants kindness over cleverness"

Every conversation deposits something. We never ask twice.

Match intro · Human in the love

Marcus32 · Brooklyn

◆ Long-term · kind

"He runs the same river you do, on the same Saturdays. He also reads Anne."

Both run on Saturdays
Both read Anne Carson

morning runsAnne Carsonkindness

YesNot now

You

Marcus

Connected

You're connected with Marcus. I'll step back. This part is yours.

Hey — I hear we both run on Saturdays.

Same river, by chance?

If you both say yes, we step back. The conversation is yours.

Inside your memory

Your context, kept like a constellation.

Every memory we pick up from your AI conversations becomes a node. Keywords link memories to people. People link to each other through what they share. This is what you'll see at /memory/graph.

Drag node · pan · scroll to zoom · click for details

Intent
Person · matched
Keyword
Memory fact
Conversation

Three steps to start

Setup is short. The conversation is long.

01
Sign in
GitHub or email. Three minutes of onboarding, then forever in your AI.
02
Connect Claude
Hook up Claude once. ChatGPT and Gemini are coming soon.
03
Get introduced
We listen, remember, and quietly bring one person at a time.

Why this

Dating apps optimize for swipes. We optimize for the people you'd actually like to meet.

"A matchmaker friend doesn't show you a feed. They text you about one person, with a real reason, and they only do it when it matters."

We don't have likes, super-likes, or a who-liked-me wall. We don't push notifications. We don't gamify your loneliness.

What we do is listen — through your AI — and remember. Over weeks, we learn what you actually mean by 'kind' or 'driven' or 'someone I'd cook with.' Then we wait until the right person shows up.

What's different

Other apps

Human in the love

Swipe carousel

One person at a time

Profile-first

Intent-first

Push notifications

A whisper, when it matters

Cold algorithm

Matchmaker friend

Spoken in 5 languages.

ENWe listen, remember, and quietly bring one person at a time.
KO우리는 듣고 기억하고, 한 번에 한 사람만 조용히 데려옵니다.
JA私たちは聞き、覚え、ひとりずつそっとお繋ぎします。
ESEscuchamos, recordamos y traemos una persona a la vez, sin ruido.
FRNous écoutons, retenons, et présentons une personne à la fois, sans bruit.

In your AI

Use the AI you already trust.

Phase 0 launches on Claude. ChatGPT and Gemini are coming soon — same setup, your context follows you via MCP.

Claude

Native MCP. The richest experience.

Connect now

How long does setup take?

About 2 minutes. One MCP setup link, then the conversation lives in Claude.

Do you store my Claude tokens?

Never. Sessions only — per ADR-0003 we don't keep provider tokens in our database.

Coming soon

ChatGPT

Same matchmaker friend, in the assistant you use most days.

Coming soon

Gemini

Coming with the next MCP wave from Google.

Last shippedMemory Graph · 5 days ago

What we're building

Public roadmap.

Vote on what comes next. We ship in the open.

See full roadmap →

Considering

Voice-first match intros
Feature
23 votes14 watching
Group dating mode
Feature
17 votes9 watching

Up next

ChatGPT MCP plug-in
Feature
41 votes22 watching
Gemini setup wizard
Feature
8 votes4 watching

Building

Ontology graph in /memory
Feature
12 votes6 watching
Roadmap kanban + voting
Feature
5 votes3 watching

Shipped

GitHub OAuth + Magic Link signin
31 votes18 watching
Five HITL native components
9 votes5 watching

Questions

Things people ask before signing up.

Is this another dating app?
No. There's no feed, no swiping, and no app to open. The whole experience lives in the AI client you already use.
What does 'MCP-native' mean?
MCP (Model Context Protocol) is the open standard that lets AI clients talk to outside services. We're built around it from day one — your context follows you across Claude, ChatGPT, and Gemini.
Will I get notifications?
No push notifications, ever. We surface matches inside your AI session — only when you're already there.
How do you decide who to introduce?
Hard guardrails first (intent, geography, age). Then AI compatibility scoring against the memory we've gathered through your conversations. Then a stable matching algorithm so introductions are mutual.
Is my data safe?
OAuth tokens never touch our database. All data is encrypted at rest and in transit. You can export everything as JSON or delete your account at any time, with a 30-day grace period.
What does it cost?
Free to try with a 14-day Premium trial. Premium adds priority surfacing and concierge moments. No refunds, but you can cancel any time at the next renewal.